Between Mind & Heart

It happens sometimes we meet someone who have a same perception or point of view about life priorities we have. A point of view can be a lifestyle, expenses, believes & many more. We end up with thought that he or she might be the best fit for us. As we have same understanding toward thing we have.

This is what we can call a perfect couple whom relationship can last for whole life.

See this can make your compatible for each other but how long it will be the question?

Compatibility is always about similar mindset & perceptions. It changes or grow as we get older. The reason is very simple “human evolving or adapt with their surrounding environment”.

So, do your partner will. The change or growth happen due to accepting changes in their surroundings. A man can want to be handsome as he wants to look young. As not being one can make them anxious in workspace. On other hand, women might want to be bit superior as she wants to control her own life. As it makes her feel less unsecure.

With time you might grow apart & realized that we no longer compatible for each other. It not necessary this situation will turn out into break up. It can become relationship were with time a affection is build & no longer it need of the compatible pillar for your relationship with them.

As a compatibility relationship required a pillar to stand.

On other hand, love required no pillar to stand. It builds on basis of your feeling towards someone. This feeling often relate with our hormonal changes but we cannot deny the existence of having a feeling for someone without expecting anything in return.

A feeling were you want to be with someone with their flaws, weakness & most important thing is embracing your feeling with acceptance of not being perfect for anyone.

A imperfect understanding of your heart might lead to a unconditional love. Were often it understand by ourselves. Instead of someone you love.

Its not like i want you to choose between compatible & unconditional relationship on the basis of anyone perception. It is a experience we all have & choices we want to make.

It always about you & later with choices it become about us.